I like me an Anon that knows how to use a good metaphor.
I think deep down most women are quite adventurous. Usually the freak just has to be dug out from under that big smelly pile of shyness, shame and fear society puts on a lot of women. I think guys usually can’t even imagine how much more “indoctrination” women go through when it comes to sex, how to behave in a relationship and what they should be looking/smell like. Seeing the shackles of prudery fall of an wildly orgasming woman is a thing of absolute beauty.
I met women before that were so insecure about their bodies, their smell/taste “down there” and a lot of other things that they could not let themselves go. Good, sweaty and honest sex only happens when both parties get completely caught up in the moment and only think about how to pleasure each other in my opinion. Freeing someone from all those external thoughts and prejudices takes a lot of trust, love and mind-blowing orgasms.
But that can take time. If you want to have a kinky sex life you have to spend a lot of time with your partner to build trust and a strong connection. Having one night stands usually ends in having pretty shallow, average sex because it’s harder to know how fast someone want’s to progress to a kinkier level. Whip out a riding crop on a first date and you’ll scare away almost anybody.
So in order to have really kinky sex you have to find the right woman and stick with her, love her, worship her, listen to her, please her, comfort her and make sweet, sweaty, kinky and dirty love to her.
BTW: We have around 1.5K messages in our inbox. There is no chance we’re going to be able to answer all of those. Since Snake is really lazy about answering questions I’m pretty much on my own here. So I guess I’ll just mindlessly browse them and answer the ones that are funny or I know an answer right away…